 
                                                                    One of the most overlooked parts of separation is what happens to the mortgage. You can divide the home, but until the loan itself is changed, both spouses remain legally responsible. In British Columbia, managing the mortgage properly during or after divorce is essential to protect credit, equity, and peace of mind.
Here’s how it works, what options you have, and the steps to take to make sure your mortgage reflects your new reality.
If both spouses are on the mortgage, the lender views them as jointly and severally liable. This means each person is 100% responsible for making payments—even if only one lives in the home after separation. Missing payments can hurt both credit scores and create long-term financial problems.
Until the mortgage is refinanced, paid off, or the property is sold, that shared responsibility continues, no matter what your separation agreement says.
There are three main ways separating couples in BC typically deal with a joint mortgage:
When one spouse wants to keep the home, refinancing is often the best solution. Here’s how it typically works in BC:
Refinancing may trigger early payout penalties, so it’s worth reviewing mortgage terms before committing.
If only one spouse’s name is on the mortgage and title, the other may still have a claim to the home’s value if it was the family residence. However, only the borrower is directly responsible to the lender. The non-titled spouse cannot remove the other or force refinancing without legal proceedings.
In these cases, lawyers and financial advisors work together to determine fair compensation through the division of other assets or a court-ordered buyout.
This is a common challenge. If income or debt ratios prevent refinancing, there are still options:
Mortgage brokers specializing in divorce situations can help explore these solutions while protecting both parties’ interests.
Even if your separation agreement says one person will make the payments, missed payments affect both parties equally if the loan is still joint. To protect your credit, monitor the account until it’s officially refinanced or discharged.
Many couples choose to set up automatic payments from a joint account until the home is sold or the new loan is finalized.
Most lenders in BC have specific procedures for divorce or separation cases. Early communication helps. You can inform the lender of your separation, request information on refinancing options, or freeze changes to the mortgage until terms are agreed upon. However, lenders cannot remove a borrower without full refinancing approval.
Refinancing or transferring a property between spouses as part of a divorce does not usually create a taxable event if done under a formal separation or court order. However, if the property is later sold or transferred to a third party, normal capital gains rules apply.
Lawyers typically register a Form A transfer and Separation Agreement to formalize the change and protect both parties. Always ensure your lender, notary, and legal team coordinate so there are no gaps in liability or ownership.
If the couple cannot agree on the home or mortgage, the BC Supreme Court can order the sale or refinance as part of property division under the Family Law Act. Judges prefer negotiated solutions, but court involvement ensures progress when cooperation fails.
In a BC divorce, the mortgage is just as important as the home itself. Until it’s refinanced, sold, or legally transferred, both borrowers remain responsible for payments. Handling the mortgage carefully protects your credit, your finances, and your future borrowing ability.
At Mansour Real Estate Group, we help clients across Surrey, Langley, Delta, White Rock, and Abbotsford coordinate real estate, legal, and lending steps during divorce. Reach out for a confidential consultation to understand your mortgage options and next steps.
The Mansour Real Estate Group, led by Mohamed Mansour, MBA and Associate Broker, is one of the Top 1% real estate teams in the Fraser Valley and a trusted authority in divorce, estate, and family property sales. With over 20 years of experience and more than $750 million in transactions, we deliver exceptional results with professionalism and compassion across Surrey, Langley, Delta, White Rock, and Abbotsford.